AU1.1 – Background to Allies
What is your understanding of being an Ally?
- Do you know what an ally is?
- Do you see yourself as an ally?
- Have you ever been supported by an ally?
- Have you ever supported as an ally?
- Would you feel safe acting as an ally?
The Guide to Allyship
Below is a few snippets from Amélie Lamont’s Guide to Allyship. If you would like more information, please visit her page. Used here with permission.
To be an ally is to:
- Take on the struggle as your own.
- Transfer the benefits of your privilege to those who lack it.
- Amplify voices of the oppressed before your own.
- Acknowledge that even though you feel pain, the conversation is not about you.
- Stand up, even when you feel scared.
- Own your mistakes and de-center yourself.
- Understand that your education is up to you and no one else.
UWE Bristol Respect Project
The following video is part of the UWE Bristol Respect Project. It is about Police Training in matters of race.
Being an Ally
Being an ally is hard work
Many would-be allies fear making mistakes that could have them labeled as “-ist” or “-ic” (racist, sexist, transphobic, homophobic, etc). But as an ally, you’re also affected by a system of oppression. This means that as an ally, there is much to unlearn and learn—mistakes are expected. You need to own this as fact and should be willing to embrace the daily work of doing better.
As an ally, you need to own your mistakes and be proactive in your education, every day.
The Dos | The Don’ts |
---|---|
Own your comments and actions | Make assumptions about people |
Understand we can all make mistakes | Use stereotypes |
Make a sincere apology | Blame the individual because they are upset |
Get to know people before you start using one-liners | Get angry and defensive |
Treat people as you would want to be treated, if you were them | Look for support from others in a group setting |
Learn from mistakes | Ignore the fact that you may have caused offence |
If you’re not sure what to say…ask | Laugh off mistakes like nothing has happened |